Full Name: Precious Ezeh

A brief Introduction about yourself: I’m Precious Ezeh, a final-year student, studying English Education at UNIZIK.I am a direct-response copywriter, personal development enthusiast and a storyteller.
Tell us about the challenge(s) that you faced.

Please describe a personal story where you overcame adversity. Feel free to include details that you are comfortable sharing.

Here’s mine.
I sat under a tree, trying to make sense of what had just happened. Mom! ‘Why did you leave me at such a young age, who do I share my joys and sorrows with’? I felt a tightening in my chest, a sense of pain that threatened to consume me. I was left alone in the sea of despair. I couldn’t bear it, and I cried out in a loud voice. That was the night when I lost my mother, I was just five years old.
After my mother passed away, I went to live with my uncle, who stepped in to fill the void. He was a towering figure, both physically and emotionally. He worked hard to provide for me. Despite his busy schedule, he found time to instill discipline, perseverance, and resilience in me.
As I navigated through my teenage years, I faced challenges that tested my resolve. There was a lot of peer pressure from my mates, but I was determined to make my family proud, so I didn’t succumb to it.As years went by, I learned to navigate life without my mother, but her absence was always there like a shadow. I spent late nights studying and working hard towards fulfilling my dreams. These moments taught me the importance of dedication and self-belief, shaping my aspirations and desires. Now, as I reflect on my journey, I see a path filled with growth and transformation. Each experience, whether joyous or challenging, has contributed to the person I am today. I am glad I did not allow the death of my mother and the storms that came my way to subvert me.
Please describe the steps you took or the mindset you developed to overcome the challenge.
📌Embracing Resilience: When I lost my mother at such a young age, I had to grow up quickly. I learned to rely on the support of my uncle and others around me, but more importantly, I embraced the mindset that life would go on, and I had to be resilient. I decided that no matter what, I would rise above the pain and keep moving forward.
📌Building Self-Belief: I learned the importance of believing in myself. There were many moments when it seemed easier to give up, but I decided that my dreams and goals were worth fighting for. Through discipline and dedication, I developed a strong sense of self-worth, which allowed me to persevere through the tough times.
📌Focus on Purpose: My family was my driving force. I focused on making my uncle and my loved ones proud, knowing that my success would honour their sacrifices. This sense of purpose gave me the strength to push forward, even when peer pressure or life’s obstacles tried to derail me.
📌Discipline & Hard Work: I spent long nights studying, focusing on my education, and working towards my dreams. I knew that nothing worth having came easy, and I adopted a disciplined approach to achieve my goals. This commitment to hard work paid off as I started to see progress.
📌Gratitude for Growth: I learned to see each challenge as an opportunity for growth. Even though the absence of my mother was painful, it shaped who I am today. I embraced the lessons that came from both the good and bad experiences, understanding that they all contributed to my growth.
📌Emotional Healing: I allowed myself time to grieve, but I also understood that healing was a journey. Over time, I realized that my mother’s legacy would live on in me, and I could honour her by becoming the best version of myself.

What advice would you give someone who is facing a similar challenge?2 responses
An advice ?
It’s through failures you learn something new, something you will never have taught of learning, and in the long run, it’s gonna be awesome
Through my words, I hope this will inspire you to embrace your story and work towards achieving your dreams with resilience and determination

Anything else you’d like to share or any additional thoughts?
Those moments were not easy for me at all. It was one of the worst stages of my life.
Imagine growing up as a little girl without the love of a mother, not confidant, no motherly love and affection.
It was quite very difficult for me. I never knew I would overcome that stage.
Though I still miss her a lot, I’m crying while writing this, because nothing can be equaled to a mother’s love.
I give all glory to God because He knows it all.
And to my lovely uncle Luke Obodo, God will reward you for being there for me in the most difficult stage of my life.